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Moments

Leaving Medellín, reflecting on a facilitation gig in Quito, arriving in Cuenca...A month of moments, shaping and reshaping my world.
Moments
Guajibamba Restaurante, Cuenca, Ecuador. Paintings by James Pilco Luzuriaga. (Painted door in the middle is to a bathroom!)

“Let’s take the spatula”

June 30, 2023 – Leaving Medellín

The spatula will fit after all, and it took 3 tries to find one we liked. So, we packed it up in our suitcase along with the small bamboo tongs great for flipping over sweet plantains frying in a pan.

I find pleasure in using a tool specifically made for the task at hand, as well as when using my creative juices to figure out a workaround to avoid buying a new thing. These 8 months in Colombia have had their fair share of both strategies.

I look forward to seeing what these suitcases will hold a year from now – what will make the cut and what is left behind. Even more, I wonder what our lives will hold a year from now – what makes the cut and what we leave behind.

A damn good job

July 21, 2023 – Debriefing Quito

I began to tell my coach about how well my facilitation gig in Ecuador went, but immediately a voice in my head said, “Don’t get too big for your britches.”

I can’t remember anyone specifically reciting this admonition against conceit, but I still somehow fully absorbed it. "Don’t get too full of yourself." "Don’t let praise go to your head." More cultural sayings to let us know that pride is a sin.

The gig was three very full days in-person in Quito, facilitating dialogue with 10 members of a global environmental coalition, plus plenty of prep/post work. It was intense, enlivening, and a wonderful use of my skills. I’m grateful to all my processing partners who helped me zoom out and in to evaluate how it went – I did a damn good job, if I do say so myself.

See how I still added that last bit to "appropriately" soften self-praise?

Beginner's Eyes, Again

Aug 1, 2023 – Cuenca, Ecuador

Seated at a restaurant recommended by locals, we clearly beat the crowd – thankfully, since we secured their only non-reserved table and our dish would take an hour to prepare. In the meanwhile, I admired the eclectic surroundings, like the painting of the young sassy girl keeping us company. I delighted in our appetizer – giant fava beans, fresh cheese, pepper sauce, and crunchy corn kernels. I soaked up the warmness of a delicious canelazo, a hot cinnamon cocktail, perfect on a chilly night at 8,400 feet(2,560 meters) above sea level.

I (still) love the newness that inspires beginner’s eyes.

From left, clockwise: Painter's sassy daughter. Fava bean appetizer. Farewell with dear ones in Medellín. All of our things packed up. View from our hostel in Quito.